I used to feel guilty for not seducing my husband on a regular basis (or at all), like I was cheating him of something. But I've decided to stop feeling sorry for him.
Great article. I think the Netflix streaming comparison was spot-on, but here's something else: Why don't they seduce US? If they want sex so badly, why not take the time for foreplay? I once had a boyfriend who started out extremely physically affectionate and sex always took an hour or longer from foreplay to finish. 4yrs later he'd flop into bed, unshowered, and just sort of grope me until I woke up (and always chose to let him have sex with me just so I could go back to sleep). Some men who were once masters of seduction will end up the guy who pouts if you ask to drink a glass of wine together first because it means he has to wait. Why do these men shirk the responsibility of initiating sex and putting in the effort?
Anyhow, I'm subscribing based on this article alone. Looking forward to reading more.
Great article. I think the Netflix streaming comparison was spot-on, but here's something else: Why don't they seduce US? If they want sex so badly, why not take the time for foreplay? I once had a boyfriend who started out extremely physically affectionate and sex always took an hour or longer from foreplay to finish. 4yrs later he'd flop into bed, unshowered, and just sort of grope me until I woke up (and always chose to let him have sex with me just so I could go back to sleep). Some men who were once masters of seduction will end up the guy who pouts if you ask to drink a glass of wine together first because it means he has to wait. Why do these men shirk the responsibility of initiating sex and putting in the effort?
Anyhow, I'm subscribing based on this article alone. Looking forward to reading more.
Thank you! And exactly :)